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By Christopher Owen (Common Room 1962-73)
Stewart Pearson (1965) died in Toronto, Canada in June 2024. He had lived there for almost fifty years. He first visited the country as a student, travelling coast to coast by train, and returned eight years later to take a job with the Toronto-based Manulife insurance company.
As a chartered surveyor and the commercial property manager for a prestigious Oxford estate agency, he had exactly the qualifications and experience that could help them to establish themselves in other major cities across Canada and the USA. He subsequently moved to the Canada Life company to run their Toronto mortgage office before deciding, as his fifties approached, that he wanted to do something for himself and setting up what became a very successful commercial real estate mortgage brokerage. The company still thrives today under the direction of his son Frazer.
An outstanding student at Abingdon, he went on to Jesus College, Oxford to read Geography, praising the fine teaching of Frank Booth and Tom Moore and pleased to attend the same college as Common Room stalwarts Mervyn Gray and John Griffin. He could equally well have chosen English and had distinguished himself by winning second prize in a national poetry competition sponsored by The Critical Quarterly, the pre-eminent literary magazine of the day. He carefully preserved the letter which informed him that his reward for this remarkable achievement was a cheque for Three Pounds Six Shillings and Eight Pence.
He continued to write poetry throughout his life, often looking back to Binsey, Jericho, Port Meadow and Wolvercote, the Oxford childhood haunts that he shared with Christine, his beloved wife and constant companion for fifty-five years. They had been two years apart at the same primary school, met at the local Youth Club and went on their first date to the annual Saint Giles Fair aged sixteen and fourteen. She was the mother of their seven children, the inspiration for some truly beautiful poems and always the centre of what he liked to call "the chaotic Pearson household", which was also home to a succession of magnificent Neapolitan Mastiffs.
When they left Oxford for Canada, Stewart flew on ahead; Christine followed a couple of months later with two small children and a third on the way, sailing from Tilbury in a Polish cargo boat which somehow managed to hit a small iceberg before arriving safely in Montreal.
Stewart initially lost touch with nearly all his old school and college friends but his memories of them were vivid and affectionate. He spoke, for example, of his admiration for Abingdon's talented musicians such as Stephen Denny, Graham Hallett and Tim Tozer and recalled Tim ending one morning-chapel service with "a full volume breakneck version of Widor's Toccata which caused a stunned and startled (Headmaster) JMC to look up in alarm to see who on earth was trying to loosen the roof tiles".
Later he began to re-connect through the internet and eventually I had the great pleasure of seeing him each summer when he and Christine came to visit her father in Oxford. We would go to Binsey and Jericho, where he lit candles in the churches in memory of his own parents, and were able one year to spend an afternoon with Roger Limerick, so fondly remembered recently by Chip Johnson. The prolific poet and the prolific song-writer had already started to exchange compositions and this meeting, their first for fifty years, renewed a special friendship that had begun in the strangest of ways when PE teacher Ron Coleman pitted them against each other in a boxing match in the school gym.
The only child of a Geordie mother and Scottish father, Stewart strove constantly to honour and live up to their down to earth attitudes and social values. His business acumen and his enterprising spirit were combined with great generosity and sensitivity and the exceptional empathy that he showed from the very beginning. At school he was frequently drawn to the lonelier boys who he sensed needed emotional or practical support. At Oxford he and his fellow Geographers fashioned a period of genuine happiness for their seriously depressed and troubled tutor. His business specialised in the financing of affordable non-profit social housing and nursing and retirement homes. It is a rich blessing to have been befriended by this always humorous, deeply compassionate and profoundly thoughtful man.
Wolvercote - Beginning
There was a great flood the year I was born,
We lived on the edge of Port Meadow
In a hind leg village sprinkled along a zigzagging
Thoroughfare that linked the Woodstock Road
With ancient Wytham.
To me, as a child, the Meadow was a vast sea
Of grass and rugged weeds shorn by wild horses and cattle
"Where the swans drift upon a darkening flood."
How many times did I ride on my dad’s crossbar
Hiding under his bicycle cape, guessing where we were,
Until the humpback bridge and amplified sounds of the weir
Gave it all away?
Sea
It’s not the gulls that cry,
It’s the sea, calling us home.
Its secrets lie well hidden,
Unknowable like the fluid
Thread of consciousness,
Woven from eternal stardust.
Keeping watch along the shoreline
Our lives are measured out in tides,
Our ears oblivious to the echoes of whale-song,
Our eyes transfixed by the horizon,
Only the fiercest gales distract us,
Until at last we discern the faint light
From a distant promontory,
A star by which to set our course home.